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What is a man's love. What is true male love? How do men love? A man does not limit communication with you only by sex
Not everything is so simple in the world of men. They live with us, love us, but play by their own rules. And we girls need to know these rules in order to understand what game to play and how to win. The more competently you show yourself in a relationship with your lover, the more points you will earn in the eyes of the chosen one as his girlfriend, wife and mother of future children.
Not one step back, or Rule One
All people make mistakes, but men never. The statistics of the "Hunting School" (a sample of five thousand men) happily informs us that the probability of a man admitting his mistake tends to zero. This is especially true if the woman turned out to be right. A man, of course, can apologize, but with what pleasure he will blame everything on circumstances. He will say that he was forced: "I did not want to, but it happened." The most amazing thing is that, most likely, he is telling the truth, and the most difficult thing is to look at this truth through male eyes. I warn you right away, the ones who will be guilty in his story will be: colleagues, bosses, the situation, but not himself.
The only intention that he pursues at this moment is a desperate desire to remain a good guy for you. After all, it is when a man has not lived up to your expectations that he is most afraid of being bad. He himself perfectly understands that he is to blame. When a woman constantly points out to a man his mistakes and recalls old sins, then sooner or later he will begin to meet your worst expectations.
As soon as a man is wrong and you are right, you inevitably face a choice: be right and continue to defend your point of view, or be happy and look at the situation through the eyes of a man. And you will choose the second if you value your relationship. As long as you accept his truth, as long as you look at him with faith and admiration in your eyes, he will strive to match his reflection in the eyes of the woman he loves.
One step forward, two steps back, or Rule Two
Man at acquaintance not looking for a serious relationship. He is quite enough "regular frivolous". Remember how often it sounds: “I want to get married!”, But you are unlikely to hear about the fact that “I want to get married.”
Any attempt to write the young man's name on the marriage certificate is perceived by him as an aggressive encroachment on his freedom. And a man is very jealous of his personal space. Only after some time, more and more deeply realizing how good he is with this girl, the man begins to let her into his personal space.
But you need to "master" the male territory as if you were a cat, slowly and carefully moving forward on soft paws. As soon as you show your claws or declare that you have the right to his space, the man will immediately take a step back or to the side, reminding you that you are only a guest in his house, even a welcome one.
If you want to get out married for the chosen one - act! Siege, ambush and caution - these are your trump cards on the way to female happiness. This fortress cannot be taken by storm.
Dust in the eyes, or the third rule
All men brag, but each does it in his own way: someone with a beautiful wife, someone with a new car, and someone with the number of books they read.
When a woman admires a man, he feels special. And at this moment a miracle happens: a simple guy suddenly grows wings behind his back. Now he is Superman and ready to kill the villain, in the sense of coping with any problem.
Therefore, admiration is what every representative of the strong half of humanity subconsciously expects and dreams of. Thirst and need for admiration is manifested in rivalry with friends, in an effort to throw dust in the eyes of women. He boasts himself and subconsciously waits for approval from the outside. As in childhood. After all, if he is "hoo" what a wonderful - it must be noticed.
When you hear any revelation from a man, don't stop him, don't try to dispel his illusion of omnipotence. Fantasy, even if it is far from reality, can become reality if you allow yourself to believe in it.
Brevity is the sister of talent, or the Fourth Rule
Communication plays a different role in the life of a man and a woman. For girls, the process of communication is a pleasure in itself. For guys, it's just a way to get information. And everything they hear, they perceive as it is. Ornately constructed phrases and indirect requests do not find a response in the male soul. The simpler the sentence is constructed, the more likely it is that you will be understood correctly.
A girl who is in a relationship with a young man sincerely believes that her beloved should read her thoughts or at least guess about her desires. But the more the request is veiled, the more hints, the more difficult it is for a man to guess what they want from him. In this mutual misunderstanding lies the cause of female disappointment. And the man has a counter reaction - irritation. He feels that they are dissatisfied with him, but he cannot understand what he is doing wrong and why cannot he simply say what is required of him?
It just so happened that a man is a logical and handsome creature, but he is used to speaking briefly and clearly, getting specific answers to his questions and simply does not know how to do it differently. By explaining your needs as clearly as possible, you make it easier for him and get what you need: a new iPhone, going to the movies or affectionate SMS at night.
"Iron Mask", or Rule Five
In the harsh world of men, it is not customary to show emotions. A real hero is always in a mask: no one should see his face. The ability to "keep up the mark" and hide experiences is a hallmark of the strongest half of humanity. A man who has trouble at work is the most withdrawn, laconic and gloomy creature in the world. All he wants when he has a difficult period in his life is for the household, along with the woman he loves, to leave him alone.
At this moment, various bad thoughts enter the woman’s head, and she begins to think about them. Having gone through the worst options for the development of relations, the girl is offended and withdraws into herself, and then the young man has one more headache. Or he begins to interrogate his beloved with predilection about what plunged him into world sorrow. A man, in order to cope with something - to survive betrayal, resentment or solve a difficult task - needs to digest it in himself.
And we have to be patient. After all, after a man solves his problems in his head, we will receive a well-deserved reward: he will return in a wonderful mood and ready to communicate.
Herd instinct, or the sixth rule
The herd instinct is not a relic of the past, it still drives modern representatives of the strongest half of humanity and is manifested in the male desire to unite in companies. There are three signs by which men unite in groups.
The first is by age. People of the same age have something to remember, because their childhood passed at the same time and the culture of this period will always be close to them.
The second is interest. The direction of male interests can lie in any area.
The third is the presence of a common enemy. These groups have the highest levels of adrenaline and testosterone and the most intolerant attitude towards life, most often multiplied by a heightened sense of justice.
In each men's group there are topics in which our boys show the most reverent interest. Sex, sports and / or politics - that's what occupies the hot men's minds when we are not around.
If you are not happy that a young person spends too much time in the company, you can either enter his environment and become part of the group, or take frequent absences with friends as a personal space and calmly go about your business. You can enter the immediate environment of your loved one by accepting the following settings:
- First, your man has great company.
- Second, you like the place where they gather.
- Third - we are talking about the desire to meet and chat with his friends. If we get a refusal, we return to point three in a couple of days or weeks.
- Fourth - his friends are your friends!
"The Dying Swan", or the Seventh Rule
There is no more defenseless and attention-hungry creature than a sick man. Indeed, even in conscious infancy (the age of three years or more), your boy was taught that if he is sick, he is the center of the universe. Now you can not do a lot, everyone walks on tiptoe and talks in whispers. And it's so nice when you are looked after, and the disease gives carte blanche to this.
So at this moment, the prospect opens up before you to show yourself with the best side. With his own hands, cook chicken broth, so useful in his "mortal" state, spoon-feed him, straighten his blanket and put his favorite films on DVD. And if you want to breathe life into your "dying swan" to the maximum, then you can do it all in a nurse's dressing gown from a sex shop.
Men and women have different psychology, and this can cause disagreement in a relationship. But everything is in your hands: write the script of your life on your own, become the director and the main character of the story of your own happiness.
When a woman loves, it is impossible not to notice. It seems that for the sake of her beloved, she is ready to move mountains. But how does the love of men change? And is it always possible to say for sure whether he loves or not.
He prefers to live for today.
That is why often in the process of establishing mutual understanding, developing relationships, the initiative comes mainly from a woman. Men treat these laces with disdain: they always complicate everything. I feel good with her, and she is trying to make a husband out of me. Why rush things like that? Why doesn't she like the way things are going now?
Men, as a rule, are in no hurry to analyze their feelings, just as they are not always interested in evaluating your feelings for themselves. Very often they are guided by the principle that everything is fine, that's great, that is, the development of feelings, building relationships are clearly not among their main concerns.
At the same time, a man may strive to see you quite often, communicate with you, feel your closeness, have sex. However, instead of questions, is this true love? Is there something on which you can build a long-term relationship? Am I wasting my time? A man says to himself: we are good together, and whether it is love or not love is the tenth thing. In other words, a man much more often lives for today and wants to have fun, and not bother with any useless philosophy.
He doesn't have a burning need to see you every day.
And even when he is really in love with you - it's just how he works. And yet, in two cases, a man wants you to always be there and every day. First, when he is afraid of losing you.
The second option is when you don't give yourself to him. You do not fly to him at the first call, sometimes you leave him earlier than he would like. You are busy and refuse to accept his invitation for this reason.
Help him, let him want to see you more often. Do not rush to him at night on demand. Agree, on an empty stomach everything is much tastier than when you overeat.
What is love for him?
This is not about what a man thinks when he says I love you. It is possible that he uses these words to manipulate to achieve no matter what: desired sex, forgiveness for some mistake, or maybe just so you don’t leave him now ....
How is real, sincere love of a man manifested?
As a rule, its foundation is three senses.
The first is the fear of losing you. But here you need to understand that in itself, apart from other feelings, it is not love. For some, it may be caused by a fear of loneliness associated with self-doubt, or mercantile considerations. To become love, she needs the support of the following two feelings.
The second component of love is pity and the desire to take care of you.
A man will never tell himself that he loves you if he does not feel sorry for you. For a man, love is closely connected with the desire to protect his beloved, to worry about her, to try in every possible way to make her life easier, to take care of her. Only if a man is just glad that he did something good to a woman, and he doesn’t really need her thanks and praise, then he most likely loves her.
And, finally, the third feeling underlying male love is admiration for you. However, it is most clearly manifested at the initial stage of falling in love or in a situation of unrequited love. Sometimes the lack of admiration is not an indicator that love has passed: it can be associated with a bad mood, trouble, depression. But in such cases, a man does not admire other women either. That is, either you (your devotion, your understanding, beauty, charm, etc.), or no one.
Don't let a man feel like he's conquered you once and for all. And vice versa, even if you are very strong and independent, sometimes pretend to be weak and helpless or don't be afraid to show yourself like that - let him feel strong, realize his defender complex. Try to remain admirable, even if you have been together for a long time. Moreover, in this case, you should know better than others what exactly can delight your man.
We women have always been interested in understanding men. Probably, they sometimes want the same. But today is not about that. The other day I came across a funny classification. According to the author, there are six main types of male love. They were called funny enough: agape, ludus, eros, mania, pragma and storge. Despite this, the descriptions themselves are very believable. I even thought: a great game for a bachelorette party is to determine the types of all the men I know. Naturally, we are talking about types of love, but the image of a man is read behind each. And she immediately rushed to compare her friends with the proposed descriptions. Well, for example, lyudus. Such a man cannot imagine relationships without a play of feelings; for him, it is feelings that underlie sexual relations. If he wants you and how he intends to realize his desires depends on the feelings that he would like to experience at a particular moment. We can say that he expresses his feelings exclusively in the form of sex. Therefore, do not be surprised if, from an excess of feelings, he has a desire to have several lovers. Another sensual type is eros. He is like a god - sensual and passionate, he will be there to admire you. And only female callousness can kill his inexhaustible faith in you - the best of the best. The love of agape, many of us, yearning for a strong male shoulder, will be called almost ideal. Such men consider it their duty to satisfy a woman in everything, not only in sex. They are capable of beautiful masculine deeds and romantic confessions. They are literally ready for anything for the sake of their beloved woman. High relationship! True, in order for him to be happy with you, you will have to comply. The complete opposite of the first two is pragma. 
Such men will philosophize for a long time and tediously about the need to love, they will sort through what his love should be and how he plans to show it ... In a word, he will never reach feelings and relationships in real life. Everything will be calculated. From a female point of view, a vile type. Absolutely hopeless option. And the only reason to endure this near you is only a random arrow of Cupid in your heart. And a couple of types of male love far from romanticism - storge and mania. The first is storge. It's simple: he will treat you like a friend. And even if you allow yourself intimate relationships, you will remain just friends. Do not expect romantic dawns, flowers on your pillow in the early morning, deeds with your name on your lips. You are "your boyfriend", so from the point of view of such a man, all this romantic nonsense is useless. Everything is smooth, reliable and, in principle, stable. Apparently, the main plus of such love is in constancy. And the last type of love is male love: mania. Girls, run! This is for the masochists. Such a man stubbornly believes in his love for you, he will constantly tell how much he thinks about this love, how much he does to preserve it. And only you do not understand this... And if, God forbid, you succumb to persuasion, he will demand your complete submission to his will. He will decide everything. In general, it is somewhat reminiscent of an obsessed maniac who psychologically presses and presses and presses ... In general, I don’t know if it is possible to withstand such a long time. Although he is unlikely to let his victim go. Scary?) But let's not dramatize the situation. Because we have something to answer for every male type - with some exclusive female type. Although, in my opinion, happiness is not in struggle, but in harmony.
We are always waiting for love. And now she comes to us, and our gray life is colored with bright colors. Love changes our thoughts, feelings capture us, the world is perceived differently. The communication channel between feelings and reason ceases to exist, because of this there is a danger of confusing flirting or passion and true love. After all, we will experience the yearning of the heart and a serious feeling in the same way. And our sick consciousness is not able to distinguish one from the other.
Love at first sight or sudden falling in love turns us almost into madmen and slaves. But somewhere in the backyard of our consciousness, the instinct of self-preservation glimmers. It is he who gives rise in us to the desire to understand the feelings of a beloved man. I want to be sure that you not only love, but also loved. How to understand that you are loved by the one to whom you undividedly give your heart? Are there any signs of a man's love for a woman at all?
Immediately it is necessary to stipulate the following points that relate to love. Why? The life of love obeys its own laws, which we do not want to reckon with.
It burns with a bright flame, alas, for a very short time. At most a year, and at best two. Then a natural metamorphosis occurs with love: the feeling fades away or falls asleep. Therefore, the signs of a man's love for a woman at different stages of the relationship will be different. We are also interested in the initial stage of a love relationship.
The psychology of male love is mysterious and interesting. In this regard, men are fundamentally different from women, who are more emotional in nature and prone to a vivid manifestation of feelings. But at the same time, men want love as much as women do.
A man in love wants to see and feel his chosen one nearby. He is even ready for reckless acts, just to please his woman. But this is only one side of the coin.
On the other hand, the representatives of the stronger sex do not need constant romance, like women. When the candy-bouquet period comes to an end, most men calm down, believing that the woman has already been achieved and can now rest. Therefore, a certain cooling, which manifests itself in the absence of bright dates and interesting surprises, should not be regarded as a lack of love on the part of a man. 
For women, love is inextricably linked with romance. A man wants love no less, but he does not need romance, especially at the end of the working day, when he comes home from work tired.
In no case should a woman be offended that her partner did not notice a new outfit or did not appreciate a romantic dinner. The fact is that a tired man sees only directly prepared dishes and the woman herself, and all other details are inaccessible to him due to daily fatigue and workload.
If a partner has not noticed something, this does not mean that he no longer loves his chosen one. He wants love and relationships in the same way as before, just in a tired state, most men show one feature: they are only interested in food that satisfies hunger, and the woman herself, and there is no time left for all other minor trifles.
Love is a universal feeling, but men and women perceive it differently. This is explained by the peculiarities of the psychology of both sexes, and this difference often leads to quarrels and misunderstandings.
But it is enough to understand what love means for a man, take into account the logic of the chosen one, and peace and harmony will reign in the couple.
Man's love
Any woman feels loved if there are external manifestations: courtship, signs of attention, gifts, hugs. For a man to feel loved, it is enough for him that a woman is nearby.
This does not mean that the fair sex is mercenary, just that men accept love by default, without requiring proof. They need three simple words"I love you" to believe: his feelings are mutual, which means that you can not "play camomile".
Women, on the other hand, tend to constantly doubt, and therefore seek confirmation of the feelings of their man. The phrase "You definitely don't love me!" in the mouth of a woman can mean anything. "I miss your attention", "I'm tired and bored", "I want a new dress."
But the problem is that the sons of Adam perceive only what they hear, and not everyone can guess the context. This is both an advantage and a disadvantage of the representatives of the strong half of humanity: their love is simple and understandable, and therefore strong.
How to understand that a man loves you
Every girl must have at least once, but wondered if a man really loves her. Even if they live together, even if this man is her dear and beloved husband. Is there any way to check this?
- Just ask: "Honey, do you really love me? And why?". That's all - so you can find out about the attitude of your man. And with a probability of 100% he will answer "Of course I love you."
- He fulfills requests and orders. Of course, an unnailed shelf can gather dust on the floor for months, but he will wake up at half past five in the morning to take you to the station, rush to the store on the other side of the city for your favorite buns and try to please you in other ways. Sometimes even without a reminder. And sometimes grumbling and indignant.
- He remembers your preferences. If you can't stand cheese, loving man will not lose sight of this when ordering in a restaurant or ordering pizza for the evening.
- He respects your opinion. A couple, a family is a union of two. Therefore, decisions must be made together, especially if they concern both. For men, love and respect are equivalent concepts.
- He doesn't put his friends above you. Evening gatherings with friends over beer are the right of every man who wants to escape from work worries and fatigue. But not in the case when you do not like it or you are sick and unable to receive guests.
It's natural behavior loving person: take into account the opinion of your soul mate and try to make him feel comfortable and good.
In a woman, of course, there must be a mystery. But one that the beloved man can easily unravel and understand the feelings of his chosen one. Therefore, consider a few important points that will make your relationship more trusting and stronger. 
Talk about your feelings. It is better to say right away that you are offended by something than to terrorize a man with reproaches, accusations and demonstrative tears. Men do not know how to read minds and want to hear a direct answer to a direct question "What happened?". If he loves you, he will try to correct his mistakes. Even if he was right.
If you want something, ask directly. It is impossible to say for sure whether men really don’t understand hints or just skillfully pretend, but the fact is: if you want something from your chosen one, say it directly. Otherwise, instead of a coveted dress, you can get a microwave oven, and he will come to the theater in his favorite torn jeans, not understanding your hint at a cultural program.
And most importantly: only a loving man will endure tears, tantrums, reproaches of his woman, but stay close, take care and continue to love her.
Accept as it is.
If a woman tries to remake a man, change the qualities of his character, lifestyle, style of dress or his interests, even for his benefit, for a man this is a signal “they don’t accept me for who I am. They don’t love me here”… If a woman accepted a man as a whole, with all his interests, qualities and way of life, accepted not at the level of intellect, but at the level of the heart, then for a man this will be the best confirmation of her love. 
Believe in him.
Believe in his wisdom, in his genius. Believe in him more than he believes in himself. Believe that he will achieve great success, that he will be able to provide for his family. Believe that he himself knows how best to act in a given situation. To believe in your man means not to give unsolicited advice, not to be smart, not to take on the role of leader and male obligations.
Just believe in him as in God, and never deviate from your faith. Even if now he has nothing, even if he has not yet found himself and his way, the faith of a loving woman will inspire him to create the impossible. It is their believing wives that successful men idolize all their lives, because thanks to their faith they discovered talents in themselves, were not afraid to take risks, fall, rise and go again, thanks to their faith they reached great heights.
Keep it strong.
A man feels that a woman loves him when she gives him support. If a woman does not support her husband in choosing clothes when they go to visit, if she does not take his side in a controversial issue, if she protects a man from some of his decisions, for him this means one thing - “they don’t like me here.” Of course, this is a blow to the vulnerable male ego. If the wife does not support her husband, he loses confidence in her, which gives a big crack in the relationship.
A wise wife should meet any masculine decision with the questions “Have you thought? You are sure? Then act!”. A man will never leave a woman who fully supports him. Even if he has an angry nature, his anger will never touch his wife. On the contrary, he will always consult with her, trusting her female wisdom, because he sees his reliable rear in her, he sees that she loves him, which means that her love will bring him good ...
Accept your men, believe and support them, and be happy! published
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Man's love. Men's quotes about love
- After an unhappy love, a man remains a bachelor, a woman gets married.
- Men declare their love before they feel it, women - after they have experienced it.
- A woman's heart is a temple for love... Only you will never understand That the Man in the temple is God... That the temple is nothing without God!
- For a woman, love is everything. For a man, love is everything. A.V. Ivanov
- A man is ready to do anything for making love, even to love.
- Men have only one honor, so many lovers! Love is easy to forget, but honor is impossible. Pierre Corneille
- Love is a story in a woman's life and an episode in a man's life. J.P. Richter
- Why is it called love when a man is used in a family, and when a woman is used it is called "Men have died out".
- This divine substance is love! It arises between a man and a woman, accumulates and reaches that critical mass from which children are born ... Or just everything explodes to hell
- Love is a battle between the sexes. A woman must defend herself first, a man after, and woe to the vanquished. Alexandre Dumas son
- A man believes what he says and doubts what he hears. Therefore, love blooms where he stubbornly repeats his “I love you” and hears in response: “But I don’t have you!”
- Love is when a woman's dreams become a man's desires.
- Some women have men, others have their love. Olga Muravieva
- And male love is plutonic. A.V. Ivanov
- Women are capable of everything, men - only love!
- Only the last love of a woman can compare with the first love of a man. O. Balzac.
- In life, love can push a man to any feats, but they become meaningless if a woman's door is locked. Dmitry Nagiev
- Love is a competition between a man and a woman to bring each other as much happiness as possible Henri-Marie Bayle (Stendhal)
No one will deny that a man and a woman perceive and evaluate emotions, experiences differently, therefore in this article we decided to talk about what men feel and not with the “mind” of a woman, but with himself.
So how does he feel? What is his soul? What is his reaction to your actions? These and many other questions have always interested women, including you. We will try to see what is happening in the male soul in order to try to learn from this. To do this, we will offer the experience of counseling men, the opinions that they expressed, observing the reaction in various situations and try to draw conclusions that can help both parties find harmony in relationships.
A man wants to live here and now
Now it becomes clear why most often the initiative to establish and / or develop relations comes from the weak half of humanity. After all, men usually treat these proposals with disdain, they say, why complicate everything, I’m not bad with her, but give her her husband on a plate.
The fact is that men are not in a hurry to evaluate their feelings for you, much less yours for themselves. They live by the principles of “Good now, and great. Why run ahead of the locomotive! And this means that developing their feelings, building relationships for them is not the main issue.
And at the same time, a man wants to see you as often as possible, to communicate, feel closeness, make love. But thinking about the seriousness of relationships, especially extending them or some kind of legalization, is of the least interest to them, because men strive for pleasure, and not tomorrow, but today, now. The fact is that most often a man lives by the principle: "We are great now, but love ..., love is a thing that comes with time."
Conclusion. This feature of male life perception is worth it to learn. After all, women want to solve problems right now, and that's all! therefore, at the reception, you can often hear the phrase: “We have been dating for a long time, but I still can’t understand our relationship!”. But in reality, does it really matter if you feel good with a person now ?! After all, today no one knows what will happen tomorrow.
Daily meetings are not important for him.
But he does not burn with the desire to see you every day, even when he is really in love. This is how a man is made.
And, nevertheless, there are two cases when he wants to see you daily:
When he is afraid of losing you, even if you are scolded, and he is offended or angry and blames you for all sins. He still thinks that he does not want to lose you and is ready to do what you want from him.
The second point is that the woman "does not give" herself to him. And this means that you don’t have to run headlong on his first click, leave him a little earlier than he expected or wanted. Occasionally be "busy" and refuse his invitations. For this case, the client’s expression is perfect: “I think I love Vera. I couldn’t get my former girls out of the house, and Vera, leaving me on Sunday morning, leaves a void in my heart, and I do my best to keep her as long as possible.
Conclusion. Make it so that he dreamed of seeing you as often as possible. No need to run to a man at the first call. After all, on an empty stomach, any dish seems to be the most delicious.
What does love mean to a man?
It is important when a man confesses his love, it does not mean that he really experiences this feeling. Perhaps saying "I love you" is a manipulation used in order to achieve something specific: sex, forgiveness, etc.
In order to understand what makes up the sincerity of male feelings, you need to understand the foundation on which they are born:
Fear of loss
However, it is worth knowing that fear does not appear by itself, but is based on some feelings, but not love. Someone is afraid of loneliness, because they are unsure of themselves or for materialistic reasons. This means that in order for fear to develop into love, it needs to be fueled by other emotions, described below.
Care
Complicity and some care are the second component of love. The fact is that you will never hear words of love from a man if he does not feel pity for you. And all because he closely connects love with the desire to experience, to protect his love, taking care of it and making life easier. Thus, rejoicing that he did something good for a woman, and not expecting gratitude, a man shows and shows his love.
A great example is the words of a young man in love: “I love doing something nice for her that I have never done to anyone before. Her happy eyes fill my heart with joy.” In the case when He perceives the situation like this, we can say that he admits for himself that he is in love.
Delight
Yes, admiration is the third fundamental feeling that underlies love. But, this emotion is most often manifested at the very beginning of falling in love, or in the case when love is inseparable. However, if admiration is absent, then this does not mean at all that there is no more love. After all, maybe a man is currently depressed, in a bad mood, etc. But in this case, He does not admire other women, that is, no one.
Yes, and it is difficult to admire a person whom you know "as yourself" all the shortcomings and virtues. And it is at this stage that admiration replaces tenderness and affection, which in turn confirms that male love is based on three positions.
Conclusion. You should not let a man feel that he has absolutely conquered you. Also, if a woman is mega independent and strong, then there are times when you should not stick it out, but rather pretend to be weak and defenseless. After all, men at all times have positioned themselves as defenders, so do not interfere with him to embody this desire to protect you. But the most important thing is that in reality, a loving woman knows what exactly delights her man, then she must “beat”.
It would seem that love, especially the love of two people, should be the same for them. However, women's and men's love is strikingly different. It's no secret that men and women think differently, look at the world differently and analyze situations differently. That's the male view of love is completely different from the female.
If a woman loves, she will show her feelings as much as possible. For her, it is simply necessary to be near the object of love, touch him, feel his presence and constantly prove his love to him with pleasant little things. True male love manifests itself in a completely different way. A man is unlikely to call you several times a day to wish you a pleasant day or good night. Let's look at what and how male love is manifested.
Signs of male love
To highlight the concept of "male love", and what it can be, you need to know the main differences between male and female love. Men's love is not amenable to outbursts of emotions and uncontrolled outbursts of passion. There is a so-called iron male logic in love. Male love is more logical and consistent, it arises gradually and grows every day.
The main manifestation of male love is that your relationship develops into a qualitatively new stage. The time of the first love and burning passion passes, and the man realizes that the woman next to him is suitable for the role of a life partner. True male love for a woman manifests itself precisely at this stage and is characterized by the following features.
- A man identifies himself with his partner, uses “we” instead of “I” in a conversation, takes care of living together, makes plans for the future.
- A man spends more time with a woman than with friends and relatives - this is a sign that he is really interested and comfortable in her company.
- A man becomes the initiator of joint pastime - both in leisure and in everyday life and Everyday life. It brings partners very close.
- A man introduces his chosen one to his parents and friends, as if introducing her into his life, into his previously closed circle.
- A man trusts his apartment / car to a woman - this is a sign of the highest trust and location.
- Even a serious quarrel (in the event that it ends in reconciliation) can be a sign of true male love, because in this way a man fights for a woman and shows that she is not indifferent to him.
- The man not only talks about joint plans for the future, but also shows some actions. This is the most important and final sign of the manifestation of male love.
Strengthening male love
So, you are sure that a man loves you and wants to be with you. However, in order to really interest him and not let his feelings cool down, it is worth listening to some advice.
