What is a man a bastard? Tips on how to recognize a scoundrel in a man

Much has been said and will be repeated about the manifestation of bitchiness in women, but for some reason no one ever uses such a term in relation to men. Although practice shows that men are no less capable of being bitchy than women.

The main manifestations of male bitchiness

• They pay exaggerated attention to their appearance. They are not necessarily metrosexuals, but they always take good care of themselves and dress beautifully. A brand new suit, expensive cufflinks, first-class perfume, a stylish haircut... It can be difficult to resist such a man.
• They are smart and educated, sharp-tongued, and have a sense of humor.
• They are pleasant and easy to talk to, but they are bad at listening to a woman. But they love to praise themselves in every possible way.
• An egoist who will always and everywhere think about his own pleasure first. This kind of person will not conquer someone and fall to his knees.
• He lives the way it suits him. The woman in his life always plays a secondary role.
• They lead an active lifestyle – travel, hobbies, men’s “toys”.
• He plays by his own rules, can behave inappropriately and do illogical things.
• Those who like to lie and create fog, hiding the details of their lives. He will never tell you exactly how many women he had, why he broke up with them and what he expects from you. Although, with all this, he will certainly try to extort all the details of your biography. To make it easier to keep you under control and, if necessary, press the most painful buttons.

Additional manifestations

Bitchiness in men, in fact, manifests itself in much the same way as in women, but is often called differently.

• A woman who dates a rich man for money and sleeps with another handsome man for pleasure is called a bitch. The man who does this is called a gigolo.
• If a woman takes her lover away from her friend, she is a bitch. If a man begins to court his friend’s girlfriend, then in the eyes of others he looks like either a traitor or a womanizer.
• It is also believed that only women are capable of gossiping and grinding the bones of their acquaintances when in the company of friends. However, men gossip just as often (if not more). It’s just that they most often discuss not their appearance, but their financial and work matters.

So men can be bitches just as often as women. Another thing is that if in women true (not feigned) bitchiness can be a sign inner strength and independence, in men, most often, this is a manifestation of cowardice and weakness. However, both of them, under bitchy behavior, try to hide their inner fears, complexes and previous disappointments, the fear of being deceived and betrayed.

It just so happens that only girls are considered bitches. But in reality it turns out that men may well have a bitchy character, forcing women to suffer from unrequited and unrequited love. About what a man-bitch is and how to behave with such a specimen.

Man-bitch: what is he like?

It’s not at all difficult to recognize a bitch in a man, especially if you yourself belong to this breed of people. So if you see your reflection in a male form, then you have hit the nail on the head.

A man-bitch in appearance is somewhat reminiscent of women with the same character. Moreover, this manifests itself not so much in his appearance as in his spiritual qualities and behavior. But unlike us, they won’t get carried away with shopping and waxing (such men are called a little differently). But at the same time, they still take care of their appearance, they just do it without fanaticism.

Such male representatives are somewhat selfish towards other people, caring only about their beautiful selves. An impudent attitude towards female representatives and complete satisfaction with one’s own person - this is exactly him. So if you are counting on a candy-bouquet period, then you shouldn’t get your hopes up in vain; it’s unlikely that there will be even a drop of romanticism in his attitude towards you, although, as they say, you never know.

At the same time, male bitches are pleasant conversationalists. Moreover, the interlocutors in the sense that they will conduct the conversations, and you will only get the role of a noble listener. So you are unlikely to succeed in trying to switch the topic of conversation to the one that interests you most. Unless he is also interested in this topic. True, in this case you will only have to listen.

For such men there are no rules other than their own, even if to some they seem completely illogical, even somewhat absurd. They are also not interested in other people's opinions. Therefore, their partners are always assigned the role of a second person, unquestioningly fulfilling all the wishes of the “master”, and any disobedience can be strictly punished (in the moral sense).

a man is a bitch A man who is a bitch is often an educated, intelligent and bright person who loves travel and trips. At the same time, they marry exclusively calm and balanced girls, such typical housewives who are the complete opposite of their spouse. After all, only such a woman can give him exactly what he likes - obedience and worship of his personality.

How to tame a bitch man, how to behave around him?

If you have met such a person in your life, and you definitely want to win him over, then first think carefully: do you need this? Unless you are the owner of the same bitchy character and you are not interested in easy prey, you want to test your charms on some more complex “object”.

So, first of all, remember that you should under no circumstances succumb to his charms. On the contrary, he should be captivated by you. In this situation, you are the hunter who decided to tame the beast. So a sober mind and not a drop of love is exactly what you need. Otherwise, your Taming plan won't work.

Only when you fully understand this point can you begin.

Never show your interest. Otherwise, the bitch man will quickly lose interest in you, since it will be too easy for him to be with you.

man is a bitch Imagine that you see your reflection in front of you. And, knowing your character traits very well, do not slack for a single minute. Under no circumstances should you enter into this love game on his terms, according to his rules.

Keep in mind that you will never be able to tie a bitch man to you. This self-righteous person, who loves only himself, will never submit to his partner. And any restrictions can only turn him against you, causing an irrepressible desire to leave.

Website bitchy. ru advises: do not reveal all your cards at once. A man-bitch is a mystery, a mystery covered in darkness. Moreover, this secret covers absolutely everything connected with him. Become the same secret for him, like a small surprise gift hidden under a lot of wrapping paper. The longer he doesn't know about your essence, the longer you will be together. Once a man-bitch can figure out who you really are, your romance will most likely end.

This is how you should behave with men with a bitchy character. If you can still keep him until the wedding, enslave his heart, then the two of you will have as bright and irrepressible a life together as you can imagine. But it would be quite difficult to call it light and carefree.

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• Kysya is a bastard. Modern prose, Oleg Chistov, This story is about a cat who lived in a small town. In those years when there were still almost no veterinary clinics, where people deprived the cat tribe of the right to reproduce. The shops were not selling... Category: Contemporary Russian literature Publisher: Publishing Solutions, eBook

There is a strong belief that for every good guy on earth there are at least 20 scoundrels to bring some balance. This means that there are currently more than a million scoundrels walking around the planet who are unworthy of even the little finger of any girl. Surely everyone knows about the existence, and some are even “lucky” to meet them on their life path. Of course, over time, many of them change and each requires a certain approach. Whether to deal with them is up to each individual girl to decide. Be that as it may, they can all be classified into several types based on similar features.

Gorilla

At this very moment, he is probably disappearing into the gym, intensely pumping up his already sculpted muscles. Or maybe he stands and gazes at his manly body in a huge mirror, carefully polishing it up. Exactly like this scoundrels they prefer a cheeky manner of communication, there is not a drop of intelligence in their eyes and they perceive women exclusively from the point of view of consumption. He will probably pass by the gray mouse, preferring obvious beauties, distinguished by their spectacular appearance and emptiness in their heads. Therefore, intellectuals have nothing to worry about: the gorillas carefully avoid them.

Braggart

His achievements at work and on the love front are obvious to everyone. And only because he tirelessly brags about everyone and everything. On the one hand, what's wrong with it when a person shares his successes at work? But what if he boasts not only about how he was the only one in the department to receive an award, but also about how he finally managed to get a girl to have sex on the first date? Such scoundrel unworthy of the company of a decent girl who does not want her sex life to be revealed to his friends.

Musician

Of course, music is a wonderful art form. However, when there is too much of it, it already resembles madness. Such a man is unable to think about anything other than his musical passions. He and his friends regularly attend concerts of various groups, most of them alternative music. And the shelves of his apartment are littered with music lovers' gadgets and unknown hits. A non-fan of this kind of music has nothing to do with this man.

Chameleon

This type of man is a real scoundrel, because he is distinguished by enviable duplicity. Alone with his beloved girl, he is all tenderness and passion. He can literally burst into tears on her shoulder, talking about the drowned hamster. However, as soon as his friends cross the threshold, he immediately discards all sentimentality, begins to laugh loudly, make vulgar jokes, and at the same time completely ignores his girlfriend, to whom he just promised to give a star from the sky.

God's gift

There are men who believe that they invented sex. That’s why they consider themselves real aces in this matter. In fact, they are akin to braggarts, only their boasting relates exclusively to the number of women who have been in their bed, as well as what they have done to them. But if he already knows what kind of hero he is, then why brag and shout about it at all corners?

User

Nobody likes to be used. This is very disappointing. He will call or text only when he needs it. But if the girl herself needs anything, he will never provide help. Consistency is the key to a normal healthy relationship. And therefore they must be mutual.

Great debater

For such a man, all topics of conversation are a complete debate. He defends his position with his heart, even if he does not understand anything about the issue under discussion. However, at the same time, he always strives to educate himself, and with this spruce he hangs out on news sites to keep abreast of the latest events. As a result, he gained a reputation as a kind of know-it-all who surpassed everyone around him in intelligence. Naturally, this cannot but irritate.

This question seems paradoxical and has no logical explanation. The image of a bitch in itself is rather repulsive, incompatible with such concepts as tranquility, family comfort, care, etc. At the same time, men continue to experience an irresistible attraction to such women. At this time, the faithful, affectionate, flexible wives of these men are at a loss: “Well, what else does he want?!” The situation has taken such a turn that now various manuals are published in large quantities and master classes are held to “retrain” ordinary women into bitchy egoists. Before embarking on activities of this kind, you should understand this situation in detail in order to correctly establish cause-and-effect relationships.

What is a female bitch?

Usually this definition is applied to ladies with a complex character. But if we were talking only about unpleasant behavior and disdainful attitude to those around them, men would hardly be attracted to these persons. Apparently, the image of a bitch includes something else. If you look at all the components of this image, the picture will look something like this:

• Appearance. A woman who is a bitch by nature can be either dazzlingly beautiful or not too beautiful. Regardless of this, she always pays great attention to her appearance. Her image is usually catchy, bright, sexy, well-groomed. With all her appearance, such a lady demonstrates self-love. She is flattered by the greedy glances of men and the hostile, envious glances of women.
• Behavior. This woman always acts in accordance with her interests, and is not at all embarrassed if she has to achieve what she wants at the expense of other people’s inconvenience. The feelings of those around her are deeply indifferent to her; she can offend or hurt a person without experiencing the slightest remorse. Believes that everyone around her is obliged to take her into account. The people next to her (friends, relatives, and even more so men) must indulge her, help her, serve her will.
• Determination. Common to all female bitches. They always know perfectly well what they want from life, both in the long term and at the current moment. Such women indulge all their desires, achieve goals by any means, men are considered primarily from the point of view of being used in this process. This quality, combined with appearance, is taken by many to be a manifestation of a hot temperament.
• Independence. This quality is necessary for such women in order not to enter into dissonance with their own personality. The bitch cannot allow herself to be in a vulnerable, dependent position, because in this case the process of satisfying her whims will be in big question. In addition, dependence means a reciprocal investment of strength, energy and emotions in another person, and this is incompatible with the selfishness of the bitch.
• Liberation. Female bitches, as a rule, are distinguished by their relaxedness in general and sexual liberation in particular. This is explained by the same egoism. Firstly, such a woman wants, even demands, attention, primarily male attention. Secondly, she believes that everything is allowed to her, the law is not written to her, she does not care about public opinion, and if she wanted something, then this desire in itself is a law.

It may seem that the image of a woman-bitch is extremely repulsive, unpleasant, collected from only negative qualities. So what attracts men in this case? Is it really just sexuality and liberation? But this quality does not mean at all that any male courtship will culminate in an intimate relationship. A bitch can not only refuse a man in a humiliating manner, but also, by taking advantage of him, “promote” him, as it is commonly called. Nevertheless, the popularity of the bitch among men is so high that many simple and much more positive women are seriously thinking about cultivating at least a drop of bitchiness in themselves.

What attracts men

First of all, of course, men react to a bright, spectacular appearance. Everyone wants to see next to them an attractive, alluring companion who can arouse the envy of other men. However, this is only the first impulse, which does not yet explain the interest in bitches. The remaining aspects can be interpreted as follows:

• Men fall for the free behavior of a bitch woman, believing that the likelihood of entering into an intimate relationship with her is very high. They regard her habits and provocations as a challenge to themselves, which is very difficult to pass by. With her behavior, a bitch keeps a man in suspense, forcing him to fantasize about himself, imagine intimacy, and desire it. Ultimately, he strives to satisfy the desire, surrounding the woman even more with attention, hints, and flirting.
• A woman-bitch skillfully uses her charms, forcing a man to take any actions to achieve her goals. As an incentive, she can offer both her favor and close proximity. In the first case, the man will think that “he is on the right path” and “this will happen soon,” in the second, he will know that for a certain “payment” (not necessarily material) he will receive the intimate connection that he so persistently sought. From now on, this reflex will be fixed in him, and the man will begin to think that he must earn sex with a bitch woman.
• The independence of a bitch attracts men even more. The vast majority of representatives of the stronger half of humanity do not experience euphoria at the thought that they will have to support, support a woman, serve as a support, and “drag” a huge burden of problems and responsibility. At the same time, he feels remorse at the thought of breaking up the relationship, because the dependent woman will be lost without him. The bitch makes it clear that she can cope just fine without him, which automatically removes the burden of responsibility from the man, and this is a much more comfortable state.
• Companions who completely devote themselves to their men, take care of them, love them, wait, sacrifice something for them, are subconsciously perceived as “conquered trophies”, and in some cases (see the previous paragraph) and as a burden. A woman who is a bitch constantly demonstrates her independence, self-sufficiency, makes it clear to a man that “she doesn’t need him that much,” that “there are a lot of people like him,” “she will replace him at any second,” etc. At the same time, she hints that she can refuse him a relationship at any time. Therefore, such a woman is perceived, on the contrary, as a “forbidden fruit”, and, as you know, it is sweet.
• The bitch's determination fascinates insecure, complex men, losers, spineless and weak men. Next to such a woman they feel more confident, sometimes it begins to seem to them that by taking actions so that she achieves her goal, they are also serving their own interests. As if these were no longer hers, but their common goals. And they quite sincerely attribute her success in achieving them to themselves. We should not forget, however, that a bitch woman will never allow such a thought; her success is only her merit. She will not hesitate to throw a man out of her life as soon as she no longer needs him.

But this is not the only thing that attracts representatives of the stronger half of humanity to such ladies, contrary to all logic. A relationship with such a woman is reminiscent of a picnic on the slope of an active volcano - it seems tasty and pleasant, but you never know when it will explode. As a rule, she often sorts things out and makes scandals, especially if she doesn’t get what she wants. Having received, on the contrary, he actively thanks his companion, reinforcing the reflex in him. All this creates the illusion of a stormy personal life that is “in full swing.”

A man, especially tired of a bland life and life with an exhausted, unattractive woman, strives for such manifestations of passion and intensity of emotions. It seems to him that he has a second wind, that this is true love. He is forced to constantly balance on the edge of this passion, afraid of losing this bright, independent and such an attractive woman. Here there is jealousy, and lust, and the desire to please, and quarrels, and reconciliation. In other words, the man is in constant good shape, which he really likes, especially at first.

How can this end?

Relationships with a bitch woman in most cases end. Firstly, no one can be in permanent stress, and secondly, every person wants to see a return on their efforts and love. If it is not there, the desire to continue investing in this “bottomless abyss” naturally disappears. Passion and attraction to this woman, like to any other, dulls over time, her shortcomings and true motives become more obvious. Ultimately, the cons outweigh the pros, and the man leaves. Sometimes it’s hard, not right away, with multiple returns and new quarrels. This state is nothing more than fading vibrations, which will inevitably lead to the end of the relationship. By the way, most often they end not in “friendship”, but in complete “burning of bridges.”

Often an alliance with a bitch ends due to betrayal. Such women, as mentioned earlier, are accustomed to not denying themselves anything, and also consider any behavior quite acceptable for themselves if it corresponds to their desires and interests. Moreover, because of their selfishness, they cannot experience true love to no one but yourself. Accordingly, a woman who is a bitch simply has no reasons to prevent her from committing infidelity.

Most often, such women are left alone, often even losing friends. The only thing that can be done in this case is to learn to build, if not warm and trusting, then at least mutually beneficial, fair relationships with other people.