How does a man's love manifest itself? What is true man's love? How do men love? A man doesn’t limit his communication with you to just sex.

25.07.2020

Not everything is so simple in the world of men. They live with us, love us, but they play by their own rules. And we girls need to know these rules in order to understand what game to play and how to win. The more competently you show yourself in your relationship with your lover, the more points you will earn in the eyes of your chosen one as his girlfriend, wife and mother of future children.

Not a step back, or Rule One

All people make mistakes, but men never do. Statistics from the “School of Hunting” (a sample of five thousand men) happily informs us that the likelihood of a man admitting his mistake tends to zero. This is especially true if the woman turns out to be right. A man, of course, can apologize, but with what pleasure he will blame everything on circumstances. He will say that he was forced: “I didn’t want to, but it happened that way.” The most surprising thing is that, most likely, he is telling the truth, and the most difficult thing is to look at this truth through a man’s eyes. I warn you right away that the culprits in his story will be his colleagues, his superiors, the situation, but not himself.

The only intention he has at this moment is a desperate desire to remain a good guy for you. After all, it is when a man does not live up to your expectations that he is most afraid of being bad. He himself understands perfectly well that he is to blame. When a woman constantly points out to a man his mistakes and recalls old sins, sooner or later he will begin to live up to your worst expectations.

As soon as a man is wrong and you are right, you inevitably face a choice: to be right and continue to defend your point of view, or to be happy and look at the situation through the eyes of a man. And you will choose the second if you value your relationship. As long as you accept his truth, while you look at him with faith and admiration in your eyes, he will strive to match his reflection in the eyes of the woman he loves.

One step forward, two steps back, or Rule Two

Man at acquaintance not looking for a serious relationship. “Regular, frivolous” ones are quite enough for him. Remember how often it sounds: “I want to get married!” - but you are unlikely to hear about the fact that “I want to get married.”

Any attempt to enter the name of a young man on a marriage certificate is perceived by him as an aggressive encroachment on his freedom. And a man is very jealous of his personal space. Only after some time, realizing more and more deeply how good he feels with this girl, the man begins to let her into his personal space.

But you need to “master” male territory as if you were a cat, slowly and carefully moving forward on soft paws. As soon as you show your claws or declare that you have the right to his space, the man will immediately take a step back or to the side, reminding you that you are only a guest in his house, even a welcome one.

If you want to go out get married for your chosen one - act! Siege, ambush and caution - these are your trump cards on the path to female happiness. This fortress cannot be taken by storm.

Dust in the eyes, or Rule Three

All men brag, but everyone does it in their own way: some with a beautiful wife, some with a new car, and some with the number of books they have read.

When a woman admires a man, he feels special. And at this moment a miracle happens: a simple guy suddenly grows wings behind his back. Now he is Superman and is ready to kill the villain, in the sense of coping with any problem.

Therefore, admiration is what every representative of the strong half of humanity subconsciously expects and dreams of. The thirst and need for admiration manifests itself in competition with friends, in the desire to show off women's eyes. He boasts himself and subconsciously waits for approval from the outside. As in childhood. After all, if he is “wow” how wonderful, it should definitely be noticed.

When you hear any revelations from a man, do not stop him, do not try to dispel his illusion of omnipotence. Fantasy, even if it is far from reality, can become reality if you allow yourself to believe in it.

Brevity is the sister of talent, or the Fourth Rule

Communication plays a different role in the life of a man and a woman. For girls, the process of communication in itself is a pleasure. For guys, it’s just a way to get information. And everything they hear is perceived as it is. Ornate phrases and indirect requests do not find a response in the male soul. The simpler the sentence is, the more likely it is that you will be understood correctly.

A girl who is in a relationship with a young man sincerely believes that her lover should read her thoughts or at least guess about her desires. But the more veiled the request, the more hints, the more difficult it is for a man to guess what they want from him. In this mutual misunderstanding lies the cause of women's disappointment. And the man has a counter reaction - irritation. He feels that they are dissatisfied with him, but cannot understand what he is doing wrong and why he can’t just say what is required of him?

It just so happens that a man is a logical and sympathetic creature, but he is used to speaking briefly and clearly, receiving specific answers to his questions, and simply does not know how to do it any other way. By explaining your needs as clearly as possible, you make his task easier and get what you need: a new iPhone, a trip to the cinema, or a sweet goodnight text.

"The Iron Mask", or Rule Five

In the harsh world of men, it is not customary to show emotions. A real hero always wears a mask: no one should see his face. The ability to “keep a mark” and hide experiences is a distinctive feature of the strongest half of humanity. A man who has troubles at work is the most withdrawn, taciturn and gloomy creature in the world. All he wants when he is going through a difficult period in his life is for his household, along with the woman he loves, to leave him alone.

At this moment, various bad thoughts enter the woman’s head, and she begins to think about them. Having gone through the worst options for the development of the relationship, the girl becomes offended and withdraws into herself, and then the young man has one more headache. Or he begins to interrogate his loved one with passion about what plunged him into world sorrow. In order for a man to cope with something - to survive betrayal, resentment or solve a difficult problem - he needs to digest it within himself.

And we have to be patient. After all, after a man solves his problems in his head, we will receive a well-deserved reward: he will return in a wonderful mood and ready to communicate.

Herd instinct, or the Sixth rule

The herd instinct is not a relic of the past; it still drives modern representatives of the strongest half of humanity and is manifested in the male desire to unite in companies. There are three signs by which men join groups.

The first is by age. People of the same age have something to remember, because their childhood passed at the same time and the culture of this period will always be close to them.

The second is based on interests. The direction of men's interests can lie in any area.

The third is based on the presence of a common enemy. These groups have the highest levels of adrenaline and testosterone and the most intolerant attitude towards life, often coupled with a heightened sense of justice.

In each men's group, there are topics in which our boys show the most reverent interest. Sex, sports and/or politics are what occupy the heated male minds when we are not around.

If you are not happy that a young man spends too much time in company, you can either enter his environment and become part of the group, or accept frequent absences from friends as personal space and calmly go about your business. You can enter the closest circle of your loved one by adopting the following settings:

The first is that your man has great company.
Second, you like the place where they gather.
Third, we talk about the desire to meet and chat with his friends. If we get a refusal, we return to point three in a couple of days or weeks.
Fourth - his friends are your friends!

"The Dying Swan", or the Seventh Rule

There is no more defenseless and attention-hungry creature than a sick man. After all, even in conscious infancy (the age of three or more years), your boy was taught that if he is sick, he is the center of the Universe. Now you don’t have to do much, everyone walks on tiptoe and speaks in a whisper. It’s so nice when someone takes care of you, and your illness gives you complete carte blanche for this.

So at this moment the prospect opens up before you to show yourself with best side. With your own hands, prepare chicken broth, which is so useful in his “near-death” state, spoon-feed him, straighten the blanket and play his favorite movies on DVD. And if you want to breathe life into your “dying swan” to the maximum, then you can do all this in a nurse’s robe from a sex shop.

Men and women have different psychology, and this can cause disagreement in relationships. But everything is in your hands: write the script of your life yourself, become the director and main character of your own story. happiness.

When a woman loves, it is impossible not to notice it. It seems that she is ready to move mountains for the sake of her beloved. But how does love change men? And is it always possible to say for sure whether he loves you or not?

He prefers to live for today.

That is why often in the process of establishing mutual understanding and developing relationships, the initiative comes mainly from the woman. Men treat these laces with disdain: they always complicate everything. I feel good with her, but she is trying to make a husband out of me. Why rush things so much? Why doesn't she like the way things are going now?

Men, as a rule, are in no hurry to analyze their feelings, just as they are not always interested in evaluating your feelings towards themselves. Very often they are guided by the principle that everything is fine, that’s great, that is, the development of feelings, building relationships are clearly not among their main concerns.

At the same time, a man may strive to see you quite often, communicate with you, feel your closeness, and have sex. However, instead of asking questions, is this true love? Is there something here on which you can build a long-term relationship? Am I wasting my time? A man says to himself: we feel good together, but whether it’s love or not is a secondary matter. In other words, a man much more often lives for today and wants to have fun, and not bother himself with any useless philosophy.

He doesn't have a burning need to see you every day.

Moreover, even when he is really in love with you - it’s just how he is designed. And yet, in two cases, a man wants you to always be there every day. Firstly, when he is afraid of losing you.

The second option is when you don’t give yourself enough to him. You don’t fly to him at the first call, sometimes you leave him earlier than he would like. You are busy and refuse to accept his invitation for this reason.

Help him, let him want to see you more often. Don't rush to him in the night at the first request. Agree, everything tastes much better on an empty stomach than when you've eaten too much.

What is love for him?

This is not about what a man thinks when he says I love you. It is quite possible that he uses these words for manipulation in order to achieve no matter what: desired sex, forgiveness for some mistake, or maybe so that you just don’t leave him now...

How does a man's true, sincere love manifest itself?

As a rule, its foundation is three senses.

The first is the fear of losing you. But here you need to understand that in itself, separately from other feelings, it is not love. For some, it may be caused by a fear of loneliness associated with self-doubt, or by materialistic considerations. To become love, it requires the support of the following two feelings.

The second component of love is pity and the desire to take care of you.

A man will never tell himself that he loves you if he does not feel sorry for you. For a man, love is closely connected with the desire to protect his beloved, worry about her, try in every possible way to make her life easier, and take care of her. Only if a man is simply glad that he did something good to a woman, and he doesn’t really need her gratitude and praise, then he most likely loves her.

And finally, the third feeling underlying male love is admiration for you. It, however, manifests itself most clearly at the initial stage of falling in love or in a situation of unrequited love. Sometimes a lack of admiration is not an indicator that love has passed: it can be associated with a bad mood, troubles, or depression. But in such cases, the man does not admire other women either. That is, either you (your devotion, your understanding, beauty, charm, etc.), or no one.

Don't let a man feel like he has conquered you once and for all. And on the contrary, even if you are very strong and independent, sometimes pretend to be weak and helpless or don’t be afraid to show yourself like that - let him feel strong, realize his protector complex. Try to remain worthy of admiration, even if you have been together for a long time. Moreover, in this case, you should know better than others what exactly is capable of delighting your man.

We women have always been interested in understanding men. They probably want the same thing sometimes. But today is not about that. The other day I came across a funny classification. According to the author, there are six main types of male love. They were named quite funny: agape, ludus, eros, mania, pragma and storge. Despite this, the descriptions themselves are very plausible. I even thought: a great game for a bachelorette party is to identify the types of all the men you know. Naturally, we are talking about types of love, but behind each one one can read the image of a man. And she immediately rushed to compare her friends with the proposed descriptions. Well, for example, ludus. Such a man cannot imagine a relationship without a play of feelings; for him, it is feelings that underlie sexual relationships. If he wants you and how he intends to realize his desires depends on the feelings that he would like to experience at a particular moment. We can say that he expresses his feelings exclusively in the form of sex. Therefore, do not be surprised if, from an excess of feelings, he has a desire to have several lovers. Another sensual type is eros. He is like a god - sensual and passionate, he will be there to admire you. And only female callousness can kill his inexhaustible faith in you - the best of the best. Many of us, yearning for a strong male shoulder, would call agape love almost ideal. Such men consider it their duty to satisfy a woman in everything, not only in sex. They are capable of beautiful masculine actions and romantic confessions. They are literally ready to do anything for the sake of their beloved woman. High relations! True, in order for him to be happy with you, you will have to conform. The complete opposite of the first two is pragma.

Such men will philosophize long and tediously about the need to love, they will break down what his love should be and how he plans to show it... In a word, he will never get to feelings and relationships in real life. Everything will be calculated and calculated. From a woman's point of view, he's a nasty guy. An absolutely hopeless option. And the only reason to tolerate such a person near you is only a random arrow of Cupid in your heart. And a couple of types of male love that are far from romanticism - storge and mania. The first is storge. It's simple: he will treat you like a friend. And even if you allow yourself an intimate relationship, you will remain just friends. Don’t expect romantic sunrises, flowers on your pillow in the early morning, or heroic deeds with your name on your lips. You are “your guy,” so from the point of view of such a man, all this romantic nonsense is useless. Everything is smooth, reliable and basically stable. Apparently, the main advantage of such love is consistency. And the last type of love is male love: mania. Girls, run! This is an option for masochists. Such a man stubbornly believes in his love for you, he will constantly tell you how much he thinks about this love, how much he does to preserve it. And only you don’t understand this... And if, God forbid, you give in to persuasion, he will demand your complete submission to his will. He will decide everything. In general, it is somewhat reminiscent of an obsessive maniac who psychologically presses and presses and presses... In general, I don’t know if it’s possible to withstand this for a long time. Although he is unlikely to let his victim go. Scary?) But let's not dramatize the situation. Because for every male type we have something to answer - with some exclusive female type. Although, in my opinion, happiness is not in struggle, but in harmony.

We are always waiting for love. And now she comes to us, and our gray life is painted with bright colors. Love changes our thoughts, our feelings capture us, the world is perceived differently. The channel of communication between feelings and reason ceases to exist, because of this there is a danger of confusing flirting or infatuation with true love. After all, we will experience heartache and serious feelings in the same way. And our sick consciousness is not able to distinguish one from the other.

Love at first sight or sudden falling in love turns us almost into madmen and slaves. But somewhere in the back of our minds the instinct of self-preservation lurks. It is he who gives birth to the desire in us to understand the feelings of the man we love. I want to be sure that you not only love, but are also loved. How can you understand that the one to whom you give your heart undividedly loves you? Are these signs of a man’s love for a woman even present?

The following points that relate to love should immediately be stated. Why? The life of love is subject to its own laws, which we do not want to take into account.

It burns with a bright flame, alas, not for long. A year at most, or two at best. Next, a natural metamorphosis occurs with love: the feeling fades away or falls asleep. Therefore, the signs of a man’s love for a woman at different stages of the relationship will be different. We are interested in the initial stage of a love relationship.

The psychology of male love is mysterious and interesting. In this regard, men are fundamentally different from women, who are more emotional by nature and prone to strong expressions of feelings. But at the same time, men want love just as much as women.

A man in love wants to see and feel his chosen one nearby. He is even ready to do reckless things just to please his woman. But this is only one side of the coin.

On the other hand, representatives of the stronger sex do not need constant romance, like women. When the candy-bouquet period comes to an end, most men calm down, believing that they have already achieved a woman and can now rest. Therefore, a certain cooling, which manifests itself in the absence of bright dates and interesting surprises, should not be regarded as a lack of love on the part of a man.

For women, love is inextricably linked with romance. A man wants love no less, but he doesn’t need romance, especially at the end of the working day, when he comes home from work tired.

A woman should never be offended that her partner did not notice a new outfit or did not appreciate a romantic dinner. The fact is that a tired man sees only the directly prepared dishes and the woman herself, and all other details turn out to be inaccessible to him due to daily fatigue and workload.

If a partner does not notice something, this does not mean that he no longer loves his chosen one. He wants love and relationships just as before, it’s just that in a tired state, most men exhibit one peculiarity: they are only interested in food that satisfies hunger, and the woman herself, and there is no time left for all other minor trifles.

Love is a universal feeling, but men and women perceive it differently. This is explained by the peculiarities of the psychology of both sexes, and this difference often leads to quarrels and misunderstandings.

But it is enough to understand what love means for a man, to take into account the logic of the chosen one, and peace and harmony will reign in the couple.

Man's love

Any woman feels loved if there are external manifestations: courtship, signs of attention, gifts, hugs. For a man to feel loved, it is enough for him to have a woman nearby.

This does not mean that the fair sex is selfish, it’s just that men accept love by default, without requiring proof. Three is enough for them simple words“I love you” to believe: his feelings are mutual, which means there is no need to “play daisy.”

Women tend to constantly doubt, and therefore seek confirmation of their man’s feelings. The phrase “You definitely don’t love me!” in the mouth of a woman it can mean anything. “I miss your attention,” “I’m tired and bored,” “I want a new dress.”

But the problem is that the sons of Adam perceive only what they hear, and not everyone can guess the context. This is both an advantage and a disadvantage of representatives of the strong half of humanity: their love is simple and understandable, and therefore strong.

How to understand that a man loves you

Every girl has probably wondered at least once whether a man really loves her. Even if they live together, even if this man is her dear and beloved husband. Is there any way to check this?

Just ask: “Darling, do you really love me? Why?” That's all - this is how you can find out about your man's attitude. And with 100% probability he will answer “Of course, I love you.”
He fulfills requests and instructions. Of course, an unnailed shelf can gather dust on the floor for months, but he will wake up at half past five in the morning to take you to the station, rush to the store on the other side of town for your favorite buns and try in other ways to please you. Sometimes even without a reminder. And sometimes grumbling and indignant.
He remembers your preferences. If you can't stand cheese, loving man will not lose sight of this when making an order at a restaurant or ordering pizza for the evening.
He respects your opinion. A couple, a family is a union of two. Therefore, decisions must be made together, especially if they concern both. For men, love and respect are equivalent concepts.
He doesn't put his friends above you. Evening gatherings with friends over beer are the right of every man who wants to escape from work worries and fatigue. But not if you don’t like it or you are sick and unable to receive guests.

This is natural behavior loving person: take into account the opinion of your significant other and try to make him feel comfortable and good.

There must certainly be a mystery in a woman. But one that the beloved man can easily unravel and understand the feelings of his chosen one. Therefore, consider a few important points that will make your relationship more trusting and stronger.

Talk about your feelings. It is better to immediately say that you are offended by something than to terrorize a man with reproaches, accusations and demonstrative tears. Men cannot read minds and want to hear a direct answer to the direct question “What happened?” If he loves you, he will try to correct his mistakes. Even if he was right.

If you want something, ask directly. It is impossible to say for sure whether men really do not understand hints or are simply skillfully pretending, but the fact is a fact: if you want something from your chosen one, say it directly. Otherwise, instead of the coveted dress, you may get a microwave, and he will come to the theater in his favorite torn jeans, not understanding your hint about the cultural program.

And most importantly: only a loving man will endure his woman’s tears, hysterics, reproaches, but remain close, care and continue to love her.

Accept it as it is.

If a woman tries to remake a man, change the qualities of his character, lifestyle, style of clothing or his interests, even for his good, for a man this is a signal “here they don’t accept me for who I am. They don’t like me here”... If a woman accepted a man entirely, with all his interests, qualities and way of life, accepted not at the level of intellect, but at the level of the heart, then for a man this will be the best confirmation of her love.

Believe in him.

Believe in his wisdom, in his genius. Believe in him more than he believes in himself. Believe that he will achieve great success, that he will be able to provide for his family. Believe that he himself knows how best to act in a given situation. Believing in your man means not giving unsolicited advice, not being clever, not taking on the role of a leader and masculine obligations.

Just believe in him as God, and never give up your faith. Even if he has nothing now, even if he has not yet found himself and his path, the faith of a loving woman will inspire him to do the impossible. It is their believing wives that successful men idolize all their lives, because thanks to their faith they discovered talents in themselves, were not afraid to take risks, fall, rise and go again, thanks to their faith they reached enormous heights.

Keep it strong.

A man feels that a woman loves him when she gives him support. If a woman does not support her husband in choosing clothes when they go to visit, if she does not take his side on a controversial issue, if she protects a man from some of his decisions, for him this means one thing - “they don’t like me here.” Of course, this is a blow to the vulnerable male ego. If a wife does not support her husband, he loses trust in her, which creates a big crack in the relationship.

A wise wife should greet any man’s decision with the questions “Have you thought? You are sure? Then act!” A man will never leave a woman who fully supports him. Even if he has an angry character, his anger will never touch his wife. On the contrary, he will always consult with her, trusting her feminine wisdom, because he sees in her his reliable rear, he sees that she loves him, which means her love will bring him good...

Accept your men, believe and support them, and be happy! published

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Man's love. Men's love quotes

After unhappy love, the man remains single, the woman gets married.
Men declare their love before they feel it, women - after they have experienced it.
A woman’s heart is a temple for love... Only you will never understand That in the temple the Man is God... That the temple is nothing without God!
For a woman, love is everything. For a man, love is everything. A.V. Ivanov
A man is ready to do anything to make love, even to love.
Men have one honor, so many lovers! Love is easy to forget, but honor cannot be forgotten. Pierre Corneille
Love is a story in a woman's life and an episode in a man's life. J.P. Richter
Why is it that when a man is used in a family it is called love, but when a woman is used it is called “Men are extinct”.
This divine substance is love! It arises between a man and a woman, accumulates and reaches that critical mass from which children are born... Or everything just explodes to hell
Love is a battle between two sexes. A woman must defend herself first, a man after, and woe to the vanquished. Alexander Dumas son
A man believes what he says and doubts what he hears. Therefore, love blossoms where he stubbornly repeats his “I love you” and hears in response: “But I don’t!”
Love is when a woman's dreams become the desires of a man.
Some women have men, others have their love. Olga Muravyova
And male love is plutonic. A.V. Ivanov
Women are capable of anything, men are only capable of love!
Only a woman's last love can compare with a man's first love. O. Balzac.
In life, love can push a man to any feats, but they become meaningless if a woman’s door is locked. Dmitry Nagiev
Love is a competition between a man and a woman to bring each other as much happiness as possible Henri-Marie Bayle (Stendhal)

February 24, 2015, at 08:09 pm

No one will deny that a man and a woman understand and evaluate emotions and experiences differently, so in this article we decided to talk about what a man feels, not with the “mind” of a woman, but with himself.

So what does He feel? What does his soul hide? What is his reaction to your actions? These and many other questions have always interested women, including you. We will try to see what is happening in the male soul in order to try to learn lessons from it. To do this, we will offer experience in counseling men, the opinions they expressed, observations of reactions in various situations, and we will try to draw conclusions that can help both parties find harmony in the relationship.

A man wants to live here and now

Now it becomes clear why most often the initiative to establish and/or develop relationships comes from the weaker half of humanity. After all, men usually treat these proposals with disdain, they say, why complicate everything, I’m already fine with her, but give her a husband on a plate.

The fact is that men are not in a hurry to evaluate their feelings for you, much less yours for themselves. They live by the principles of “Good now, and great. Why run ahead of the locomotive!” This means that developing their feelings and building relationships is not the main issue for them.

And at the same time, the man wants to see you as often as possible, to communicate, to feel closeness, to make love. But thinking about the seriousness of the relationship, especially prolonging it or legitimizing it in some way, is of least interest to them, because men strive for pleasure, and not tomorrow, but today, now. The fact is that most often a man lives by the principle: “We are great now, but love..., love is a gainful thing.”

Conclusion. This feature of men's perception of life is worth learning. After all, women want to solve problems right now, that’s all! therefore, at a reception you can often hear the phrase: “We have been dating for a long time, but I still cannot understand our relationship!” But in reality, is it so important if you feel good with the person now?! After all, today no one knows what will happen tomorrow.

Daily meetings are not important for him

But he doesn’t have a desire to see you every day, even when he’s really in love. This is how a man works.

And, nevertheless, there are two cases when he wants to see you every day:

When he is afraid of losing you, even if you are quarreled, and he is offended or angry and blames you for all your sins. He still thinks that he doesn’t want to lose you and is ready to do what you want from him.

The second point is that the woman “doesn’t give herself enough” to him. And this means that you don’t have to run headlong at his first click, or leave him a little earlier than he expected or wanted. Occasionally be “busy” and refuse his invitations. The client’s expression is perfect for this case: “I think I love Vera. I couldn’t get my previous girls out of the house, but Vera, leaving me on Sunday morning, leaves an emptiness in my heart, and I do everything possible to keep her as long as possible.”

Conclusion. Make him dream of seeing you as often as possible. There is no need to run to a man at the first call. After all, on an empty stomach, any dish seems most delicious.

What does love mean to a man?

It is important that when a man declares his love, it does not mean that he really experiences this feeling. Perhaps saying “I love you” is a manipulation used to achieve something specific: sex, forgiveness, etc.

In order to understand what makes up the sincerity of male feelings, you need to understand the foundation on which they arise:

Fear of loss

However, it is worth knowing that fear does not appear on its own, but is based on some feelings, but not love. Someone is afraid of loneliness because they are unsure of themselves or for mercantile reasons. This means that for fear to grow into love, it needs to be fueled by other emotions described below.

Care

Complicity and some kind of care are the second component of love. The fact is that you will never hear words of love from a man if he does not feel pity for you. And all because he closely connects love with the desire to experience, protect his love, taking care of it and making life easier. Thus, rejoicing that he did something good for a woman, and without expecting gratitude, a man shows and shows his love.

An excellent example is the words of a young man in love: “I love doing something nice for her that I have never done for anyone before. Her happy eyes fill my heart with joy.” In the case when He perceives the situation like this, we can say that he admits to himself that he is in love.

Delight

Yes, admiration is the third fundamental feeling that underlies love. But, this emotion most often manifests itself at the very beginning of falling in love or in the case when love is inseparable. However, if admiration is absent, this does not mean at all that there is no more love. After all, a man may currently have depression, a bad mood, etc. But in this case, He does not admire other women, that is, no one.

Yes, and it’s difficult to admire a person whom you know “like yourself”, all the shortcomings and advantages. And it is precisely at this stage that admiration gives way to tenderness and affection, which in turn confirms that male love is based on three positions.

Conclusion. You should not let a man feel that he has absolutely conquered you. Also, if a woman is mega independent and strong, then there are moments when you shouldn’t stick it out, but it’s better to pretend to be weak and defenseless. After all, men have always positioned themselves as protectors, so don’t stop him from realizing this desire to protect you. But the most important thing is that in reality, a loving woman knows what exactly delights her man, and that is what she must “play up.”

It would seem that love, especially the love of two people, should be the same for them. However, female and male love are strikingly different. It's no secret that men and women think differently, look at the world differently and analyze situations differently. So the male view of love is completely different from the female one.

If a woman loves, she will show her feeling as much as possible. For her, it is simply necessary to be close to the object of her love, touch him, feel his presence and constantly prove her love to him with pleasant little things. True male love manifests itself in a completely different way. A man is unlikely to call you several times a day to wish you a pleasant day or good night. Let's look at what and how male love manifests itself.

Signs of male love

To highlight the concept of “male love” and what it can be, you need to know the main differences between male and female love. Male love does not give in to impulses of emotion and uncontrollable outbursts of passion. There is a so-called iron male logic in love. Male love is more logical and consistent, it arises gradually and grows every day.

The main manifestation of male love is that your relationship develops into a qualitatively new stage. The time of first love and burning passion passes, and the man realizes that the woman next to him is suitable for the role of a life partner. True man's love for a woman manifests itself precisely at this stage and is characterized by the following signs.

A man identifies himself with his partner, uses “we” instead of “I” in conversations, cares about living together, and makes plans for the future.
A man spends more time with a woman than with friends and relatives - this is a sign that he is truly interested and comfortable in her company.
A man becomes the initiator of spending time together - both in leisure and in everyday life and Everyday life. This brings partners very close.
The man introduces his chosen one to his parents and friends, as if introducing her into his life, into his previously closed circle.
A man trusts a woman with his apartment/car - this is a sign of the highest trust and affection.
Even a serious quarrel (if it ends in reconciliation) can be a sign of true male love, because in this way a man fights for a woman and shows that he cares about her.
The man not only talks about joint plans for the future, but also takes some actions. This is the most important and final sign of the manifestation of male love.

Strengthening male love

So, you are sure that a man loves you and wants to be with you. However, in order to truly interest him and not let your feelings cool down, you should listen to some advice.